The doctor is back in.

Well I vowed never to do the Dr. Phil thing again, but I just couldn't help myself and gave some valuable relationship advice to a friend via IM:


[13:14] voodazzed: very cool. should be funny fun fun
[13:14] voodazzed: and I'll be sure to say that when I see you
[13:14] voodazzed: as you pretend not to know me
[13:14] ruhkel: ass
[13:17] voodazzed: oh like you don't love it!
[13:17] voodazzed: muwhahaa
[13:17] ruhkel: I so doooo
[13:18] ruhkel: i am going to tell you ahead
[13:18] ruhkel: he is a temptation to me...or have I already told you that?
[13:18] ruhkel: I think that i have
[13:18] voodazzed: yeah, yeah. what's the problem then?
[13:18] ruhkel: it has caused me to chicken out before
[13:18] ruhkel: other times it has been my crazy schedule.
[13:18] voodazzed: oh. you didn't tell me that
[13:19] ruhkel: but there was a time when I was afraid
[13:19] voodazzed: afraid of what?
[13:19] ruhkel: him
[13:19] voodazzed: ???
[13:19] voodazzed: what are you yappin about??
[13:19] ruhkel: yeah.. if there will be a connection...will I behave...
[13:19] ruhkel: all that jazz
[13:20] voodazzed: oh lord. This is one of those situations where you shouldn't think so much.
[13:20] voodazzed: you gotta put all that out of your mind
[13:20] voodazzed: take a chance, within reason of course.
[13:20] voodazzed: just go with the flow and have fun
[13:20] voodazzed: otherwise you'll be all uptight and he'll think you're a crazy woman.
[13:20] ruhkel: thats the problem...I would
[13:20] ruhkel: and I remember hearing you bitch about relationships that end in disaster whenever you did that "go with the flow" crap DESPITE the fact that i told it would end badly, but somebody didn't want to listen.
[13:20] voodazzed: haha! Good point, but living with the "what if" crap would've been worse.
[13:20] ruhkel: true. Especially if I had to hear you boo hoo about it.
[13:20] voodazzed: Shaddap... sometimes you gotta leave your security bubble
[13:20] ruhkel: thats not my nature regardless of the situation
[13:21] ruhkel: shut up
[13:21] voodazzed: the point is, you gotta stop thinking and start doing
[13:21] voodazzed: then you'll either say you should've done this a long time ago or curse yourself for trying at all
[13:21] voodazzed: it's all a coin toss
[13:21] voodazzed: can't be afraid of where it lands
[13:22] ruhkel: I agree
[13:22] voodazzed: dang... I'm full of advice today
[13:22] voodazzed: Seriously, it annoys me how much you're underestimating yourself. You've worked your ass off, got a great career and make more money than god and you were smart enough to do a pre nup and not have kids with your dumbass ex husband. Yet you're acting like a frightend little school girl with this dude.
[13:22] ruhkel: jezus, vin... don't hold back or anything.
[13:23] voodazzed: not in my nature, but seriously, I didn't get any bad vibes from the dude and he's a HELL of a lot better than your ex-hubby.
[13:24] ruhkel: that's not saying much.
[13:25] voodazzed: No shit. Dude was a douchebag.
[13:25] ruhkel: Try being married to him for three years.
[13:25] voodazzed: bleh. Anyway, you obviously like the guy and he likes you so you'd better put out before he loses interest.
[13:26] ruhkel: Excuse me??
[13:27] voodazzed: Oh sure, guys respect a woman who gives it up right away.
[13:27] ruhkel: Ha.Then I'd better remember to wear my hoochiest oufit on our next date.
[13:27] voodazzed: There ya go!
[13:28] ruhkel: you're such a scumbag.
[13:28] ruhkel: but really, thanks for the pep talk, vin.
[13:29] voodazzed: No problem. just gimme some money. 20 grand should do.
[13:29] ruhkel: check's in the mail
[13:29] ruhkel: uh oh. I just saw one of my employees smile so I'd better put a stop to that!
[13:29] voodazzed: Oh, god forbid! Kill them now!
[13:29] ruhkel: Yeah, yeah. Good talking with ya vin. later.
[13:29] voodazzed: cya

Ugggh, hopefully I won't make a habit of.... helping my friends and loved ones.... I have a reputation to think of.