Taken for granted.

Sheeeesh! It's about friggin' time! For some odd reason I've been having a bitch of a time logging into my blog, but all is well now.

Okay, something I've noticed as far as relationships go is that the more you make yourself unavailable to someone the more they find you attractive, but giving them love and affection (without being clingy) everyday tends to drive them away.

It's like some kid who has ignored a perfectly good toy for months until mom or dad come along to take it to goodwill and suddenly that toy becomes the best thing in the universe to the kid as he kicks and screams to hold onto it.

Now this isn't anything new, I know. It's a typical story of people taking things and other people for granted, I've been guilty of doing this a few times, but why do we do it? Why can't we appreciate that shiny little toy while we still have it? Why can we not see how much something or someone means to us until they're about to leave our lives forever?
Aren't we better than some snot nosed kid?

Sometimes people get lucky-- sometimes they see the light and manage to hold on to that special "someone" and treat it with the respect they deserve, but a lot of times it's just too little too late and they have lost them forever.

If you do have a special little somebody that you don't treat as well as you should, stop being such a selfish motherfucker, cut the BULLSHIT and let them know how special they are because they aren't going to be around forever.

Okay the conclusion of the post has almost nothing to do with the introduction, but at least SOME kind of point was made dammit!