Asian girls don't like brothas?

I was chatting with an old friend on the phone who lives in Atlanta and he was telling me about a little problem he was having: He couldn't seem to score with asian girls. He asked my advice since I've actually gone out with several. By several I mean a total of THREE. Yeah, I'm a real expert. Anyway, he kept asking me what was my "secret" to get them to go out with me. He was acting like it was some ancient mystery buried in the sands of time for millions of years and he was talking to me like I've accomplished the impossible by GASP! Dating an Asian woman!!!



What is this fascination a lot of men have for them?? I know too many guys who dream of one day having an asian girlfriend or whatever. What is it some kind of status symbol? Silly me, I must've missed that memo because they're no better from any other woman out there.

Anyway, I found out the real reason my friend was in such awe of me and it was because I was a BLACK guy dating an asian girl. I was a little surprised by this and asked him to explain and he said think about it.... how many asian girls have you seen with black men. He had a point since I haven't seen any around here. But this is Knoxville after all. He said it wasn't much better in Atlanta.



He said the only guys they go for are other asians or white boys. The only black men who get asian women are usually knee deep in the hip hop culture and I guess it's cool to be dating someone like that. He's shit outta luck because he embraces the hip hop culture about as much as I do... that's why we're friends.



He then went on to say that white guys have more success with them because of the misconception of white people being more "accetable" to date than blacks. An asian girl who dates a black guy or any other "minority" is seen as "cheap" or a "ghetto wannabe". Or they're just experimenting, seeing if the "black myth" is true (he said the same for white girls, btw). They MIGHT fuck you, but don't expect them to introduce you to their friends or family anytime soon (I've known a couple of broads like that) Bottom line, he said, blacks are at the bottom of the barrel and we have to work that much harder at the whole interracial thing.

Wow.... that did wonders for my self-esteem. So let me get this straight... If a female outside my race dates me, it's because they are whores or trash who've been shunned by every other race, so they "settle" with mine? Okay...



I told him he was just being bitter since he hasn't fufilled his "asian girl fantasy". I swear, the guy has been with women from just about every race and nationality I can think of, but I guess that isn't good enough. I think his ego was a bit bruised from being rejected (I have to admit, he's pretty smooth).



Anyway, now that I think about it, he may have a point with the tiering of social/racial groups, something I've known since childhood, but the rest of his theory, I just don't know. Anyhoo, I told him my "secret" was just being myself. He called me a liar. I said I wasn't. It was 15 minutes before he believed me and thanked me for being absolutely NO help whatsoever.



I try.