Okay, as you know, my co-worker mariell has been giving me the cold shoulder lately and I have no idea why. So today, I tried IMing her to see what was up and she actually blocked my account. Unblievable. The only things I can think of that would make her this upset is that she read my earlier "annoying co-worker" post for some reason assumed I was talking about her. Why on earth she would think of such a thing I'll never know. The other reason was the time I teased a week ago a Barley's and she looked a little annoyed, but that can't be it since we used to tease each other all the time.
My first reaction was to go to her and apologize my guts out for the misunderstanding, but then I thought about it: For once, I did absolutely NOTHING wrong. The only thing I did was rant about a co-worker who was bugging me. Nothing more, nothing less-- yet for some unknown reason she automatically assumed I was talking about her. That's ridiculous and unfair and I'm sure as hell not going to apologize over something I didn't even do.
Technically I tried talking things out with her, like I do to all my friends I piss off, but it's kind of hard to do that when that person shuts down the main artery of communication at the office which is IM. Good thing I didn't try talking to her in person, I probably dodged quite a bit of drama there.
Besides, like I said, I did nothing wrong. That is of course if I'm right about her misinterpreting the post as being directed towards her. If it's something else entirely, I don't even want to know.
If she wants to assume the worst about me and piss away a year of friendship over something so stupidly mudane and do the whole "silent treatment" routine there's nothing I can do about it. It just tells me the friendship wasn't as strong as I thought. Shame. I'm too old for these shennanigans.
Once again: I need more GUY friends. Never had a dude give me the silent treatment. Well, there was my gay friend Ron, but he got over it in a couple of hours. I wonder how that fool is doing anyway?
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