I had a long talk with a friend of mine the other night and was shocked when she questioned our friendship because of my past actions. She wondered if I really valued our friendship or was I just using her because she was "convienent". She also brought up several times where she felt like she was being disrespected by me and so forth.
This was surprising because some of these things happened over a year ago and I had no idea that she felt this way because she certainly didn't say anything about it before, but that's the way she is I suppose. It also made me rethink a few things about myself. Not my awe inspiring awesomeness of course... there is NO doubt about that, but other almost important things about me.
Long story short, we sorted things out and we're cool again plus I gave her some "friendly" advice about her no good, dead beat, manipulative piece of shit boyfriend as well. I was really trying to keep a nuetral position in this particular situation, since I promised myself to butt out of my friends' private lives and cut down on the lecturing, but she wanted an honest response and I gave her one. MAN, that felt good to cut loose like that.... worthless, motherless, arrogant, womaninzing fucking fuck fucker! May he burn in hell!!
On a more pleasant note, people come in and out of my life all the time, but I really can't picture my life without her in it.
Yeah, yeah that last part was corny, but it's true so kiss my incredilbly firm round ass!
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Having been on the receiving end of one of your infamous lectures, I know just how brutal you can be, but I don't think you should stop doing it completely. Some people need a kick in the head to prevent them from doing something stupid. God knows you've saved me from doing some retarded things in the past. ^_^
ReplyDeleteJust don't go overboard with it.
-CR
some fools don't wanna listen to the truth till it bites em in the ass and then ya gotta hear bout shit they didn't have to go thru if they just listened in the first place.
ReplyDeleteleast ya gotta friend who appreciates what ya gotta say.
***MeCyah***
mecayah:
ReplyDeleteRight on! I hate it when people always ask for an honest opinion, but get pissed off at you when you give them one (the one they don't wanna hear). Fuckers.
I'm glad you were able to work things out with your friend. I'm a firm believer that lovers are fleeting, but friends are forever.
ReplyDelete-K
One thing I gotta say about ol' vinnie is that he has no problem talking things out with friends especially if he's the one that fucked up, so there!
ReplyDelete-Jess
Jess:
ReplyDeleteMeh... no big deal. I have no problem admitting when I screwed up and talking it out. It's a shame this is such an alien concept to a lot of people. Many friendships can be saved and a lot of bloodshed can be avoided.
My awesomeness knows no bounds!
Mecyah:
Yeah, I hate that shit too. That's why I keep my mouth shut with people like that.
abomination:
90 percent of the time when someone asks you for an honest opinion, they don't really want an honest opinion. That's like when a girl asks you if she looks fat. You KNOW there's only one answer to that question!