Monday, June 13, 2005

Using DUMB ASSES.

A few days ago I was enlightened to a disturbing fact that some women purposely date men who are either less educated than them or not as strong willed. I talked to several women about this at a friend's house and shockingly they did the same thing! The reason they did this was because it was easier to get inside their heads or some such nonsense like that. It's some kind of empowerment they get when they get their "significant" other to do what they want. I mean one of these ladies had a somewhat valid reason for doing so since she was married to a controlling husband, but the others just did it to be in control. Plain and simple.

How fucked up is that! Personally, I couldn't STAND being with a woman who was a dumb ass. I don't want a moron who is so unbelievably stupid that they can't see that they are being controlled by a simple mind game.


It's even worse when men allow it to happen to them, but then I think to myself if they even realize they're just being dangled around like some pathetic meat puppet. It's much like a pig being exploited for its meat. You think the poor little swine has any idea what's in store for it as it blissfully chomps away at its slop? Probably not. I just want to grab and shake these retards and scream at them to grow a fucking pair!

I mean, what's the point being with someone who is wrapped around your finger? At what point does it start to become boring when you know you can get your little fool to do anything you want with the slightest of gestures? Where's the fucking challenge in that? Personally I prefer a free thinking individual that actually has a brain to think with and has the strength and confidence to express what they are thinking. I'm an educated, outspoken man and I prefer to be with my own people. Why the hell should I settle for anything less?


Then again, I do have a unique insight in these things, having mostly female friends, I've learned quite a bit on how subtle they can be when they want a guy to do something and I realized that I have had these same things done to me without even realizing it. Yeah, I really do treasure my friendship with my female friends. They've helped me out of some bad relationships... when I chose to listen of course.

Anyway, it would drive me nuts if I was stuck with a dumb ass or a jellyfish. It would drive me even more insane if I was stuck with a manipulator. I wouldn't be able to respect either of them and once I don't respect someone, I don't bother with them at all.

I was beginning to wonder if all women thought this way, but fortunately, most, if not all the women I asked about this subject reacted the same way I did and were pretty disgusted by it. Thank god. I was on the verge of turning in my permanent resignation to the pursuit of the opposite sex.

16 comments:

  1. That's pretty fucked up and what's so "empowering" about controlling a retarded weak spined chump?
    They can have 'em.
    -K

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  2. What's the point of getting some insecure uneducated tool to do something I want? That would be as satisfying as getting a dog to beg for food.
    Boooring.

    -Z

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  3. Well, Dahhhling - why do you think I hang out with you?


    :D

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  4. See i never understood that shit. usin random chumps is one thing but doin it sum one you love is just wrong plain an simple. that sure as hell aint love thats just about gettin yours and dickin sum one over to get it.
    whatev, if people arent smart enuff to see theyre gettin played then they deserve what they get.

    -matoki

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  5. Foolish little man! You only THINK you know all our manipulating secrets! You know NOTHING! *evil laughter ensues*

    Anyway, dumb people were put on this earth to be used and exploited by their intellectual superiors. It's just a fact!

    I don't know if I could date one however. That would get old really quick.

    -CR

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  6. That's beyond messed up! It's bitches like these that make the decent ones look bad!
    Fucking double standard everyone always raises hell when a guy uses a chick, but it's celebrated as "empowerment' when a woman does it do a guy. They feature fucking articles in women's magazines that give step by step instructions on how to do this!Bullshit!
    Empowerment my ass more like the bitches are trying to compensate for her own short comings.

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  7. Abomination:
    You really need to shut the hell up because you sound like a dumb ass.

    -Jess

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  8. ROFL!! omG! Damn that was harsh! Abom has a good point though a lotta control freaks I know are pretty isecure about themselves.

    -poe

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  9. My friend treats her husband like that. She's always coming up with new ways to "get into his head" and treats it like a game.
    Funny thing is, he knows what she's up to and tolerates it (she's college educated, he's not). He said it's just the way she is and he doesn't mind. I'll *never* understand how he tolerates being disrespected like that. I would kill my husband if he tried anything like that with me. lol!

    (...)

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  10. J:
    Well gee, I thought you hung out with me because I was such a cool and nice person to be around. I guess I was wrong... me am sad. :(

    CR:
    Whatever! I know all your tricks! It's only a matter of time!

    Abomination:
    Man, and people say I'VE got issues with women. Yikes!

    Jess:
    Calm down, you wild cat!

    (...):
    I can't understand it either, but I suppose some people are just happier that way. *shrugs*

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  11. You nailed it on the head there, vincent. There are some people who are more comfortable being the submissive type and function the best when there's someone to "guide" them or "use" them, motivate, etc.
    On the other hand, you've got your dominate types who feel more comfortable being in control. So in theory, a dominant and submissive would make the perfect couple.
    Hey, it worked for my parents for almost 20 years.... until they got divorced that is. ;-P

    -R

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  12. R-
    Not to make light of your situation, but that last part really made me laugh! ^_^

    In THEORY subs and doms are supposed to be the perfect couple until one of two things happen.

    1. The sub gets tired of being pushed around, grows a pair and finds someone who treats them with respect
    2. The dom gets tired of the sub's doormat behavior and seeks someone more challenging.


    That's been my observation anyway

    -CR

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  13. I used to be with an "educated" girl who thought just because I didn't go to college, she could bend me to her will with her cheap mind games. My "ignorance" worked to my advantage because she thought I was too stupid to see through her games or come up mind games of my own. As a result I got away with a lot of things while making her think she was in charge. So don't underestimate the "dumb ass".

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  14. sounds like a pretty fucked up relationship you got goin on there, bri. Damn.

    -x

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  15. lol! Nah man I'm not with her anymore. That was back during my young and stupid days when I thought thats relationships were all about. I know better now and I have a girl that treats me with respect and I do the same with her. It's all good.

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  16. I was bout to say! U dont to hang wiht that mess!

    -matoki

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