Sunday, September 19, 2004

Issues much??

This is an email from one of my friends concerning my current situation:



Okay this is my opinion on platonic male/female friendships. I think it is like playing with fire male/female friendships..men are from Venus woman are from Mars....ever heard of that book? It can happen only in rare situations. For instance, if two people have been married and had children then they become friends to be civil for the children again look at the statistics of that; pretty low! Anyway, like I said it is RARE if those two people are not attracted to each other in any way then it may work.



I have been down the road of "just being friends" HA what a joke! I have even tried being "just friends" with ex's HA same thing! What a joke!!! This is my opinion.



 I have seen your situation time and time again. You'll probably go get an opinion from one a your female friends and she will say I am jealous woman....fine with me.  It's just my opinion from my own experiences. This girl you're interested in is either too immature, confused or she's just jerking you around and seeing someone else. Whatever the case may be this girl obviously doesn't feel the same way for you as you do for her and she never will. Hate to be cruel, but that's probably the case. "I don't know" Please! If she "likes" you so much why can't she make it official? What's with this casual nonsense? Something's fishy about that. How old is she? Eighteen?? I say it's time to get the hell out of Dodge.



 Anyway, whatever is comfortable to you - you will keep on doing.



 Hope you're having a good weekend!

-J




MAN. I thought I had issues!

You know the funny thing is that she seems to have completely forgotten that our 7 year friendship started from when we used to date. LOL! Oh well, I've always respected her brutal honesty which is why she is my friend!

3 comments:

  1. Jessica, eh? I agree with most of what she said, but you already know that. :)

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  2. Good grief! I KNOW I have issues, but I can still have male friends. Actually, up until now, my male friends outnumbered my female friends. And no - not all of them want to sleep with me! *snicker* Yes, you can be good friends with someone you've dated. I'm still friends with my ex husband, and there are no kids involved. *sheesh* Some people just need to grow tfu. ((HUGS))
    -Mel

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  3. Can't we all stop discussing this, and just get it on?

    ~Cleavage~

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