Okay, I was reading all the comments on my "debauchery" post and I was surprised at all the questions pertaining the ex:
First of all, this has nothing to do with the ex. How the HELL did she even come up anyway?? This is not about getting over her, getting back at her, "moving on" or whatever. So enough of the Dr. Phil wannabe psy 101 crap (I really hate that fat, arrogant, goofy bastard).
I came to an understanding with her a long time ago and things are pretty cool between us now.
We aren't best buddies or anything, but we're talking (sorta). Once again: One day at a time.
As for your "concerns" about her dumping me for the "other guy": She made her decision and followed her heart. That's that…move along, people! Nothing to see here.
I don't think I can make it clearer than that.
Oh, and to all you little trolls trying to start some shit by spewing out random insults, do me a big favor and kindly shut the fuck up.
This was about me wanting to satisfy a basic primal urge and having a great time doing it. This particular girl I was with is one of a few women who can bring out a particularly aggressive part of me that very FEW people ever see which is kind of scary as well as exciting. Of course we've had years to discover each others' "buttons" and we've explored almost every sexual fetish from simple role playing to full on S&M so needless to say, we're VERY comfortable with each other and that also explains the explosive sexual chemistry between us.
I usually don't do the kiss and tell bullshit, but this is a unique story since I've never indulged in so many different fetishes/fantasies and techniques in such rapid succession with little or no rest throughout the night and part of the next day. I kind of surprised myself! It's been years since I let this part of me come out and I guess I was overdue.
Of course my mother calling me in the middle of it all was hilarious and so friggin' surreal! I'm gonna need therapy for that one.
Anyway, I'm done. Hope that answers your questions... like I give a damn if it doesn't.
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Awww! You know we didn't mean it! *hugs*
ReplyDelete-T
Hey, man I didn't mean anything by what I said. I was just asking a question. Sorry if I pissed you off.
ReplyDeleteHmmm... have I not seen this side of you??
ReplyDeleteAnd is this girl who I THINK she is?? That would explain everything!
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*Ray*
All I'm saying is that your ex was foolish to give you up. It's a compliment I assure you! ;-)
ReplyDelete-T
Um, to that girl Zoe who commented on the other post that she can't get her man to try more than 2 positions, um, you need to dump him?
ReplyDeleteR
abomination: You know damn well you were trying to start something by "suggesting" that the ex was inadequate in bed. Knock it off.
ReplyDeleteT: thanks for the compliements. I've been on severe sleep dep lately so sorry if I sounded a little cranky. As for the ex giving me up, well it happens. I realize now that the guy she's in love with is her soulmate. All the freaky sex in the world can't compete with that.
Ray: Yeah, you would be right. She's THAT girl. Keep it to yourself. ;)
R: I'm going to have to agree with you. Sounds like the guy is bored with her anyway.
I thought so! You two were always all over each other AND my car! lol!
ReplyDeleteThe big question is: did your ex ever come close to awakening your freaky side??
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*Ray*
That's true about the soulmate thing.
ReplyDeleteI knew you held back with her since you told me she reacted "oddly" when you first tried to introduce her to your "aggressive side". It's probably for the best. Things tend to get broken and torn when you show that particular persona.
I'm not surprised how you were able to come to terms with her decision. Despite the questionable way she chose to tell you, you still managed to stay on friendly terms with her. A lot of people would not be able to do that. Classic Vincent.
Despite all the stress and frustration and she put you through, you never gave up on her until you were finally able to understand what she was about. I feel in the long run that will make your friendship stronger. Some people may call that weak, but that's far from the case.
Shame I didn't get to meet her because from what you've told me, she sounded like a really cool girl or else I know you would have nothing to do with her.
All that aside, I still think it's her loss that she didn't choose to be with you, but we women are like that. For better or for worse, we've got to follow our hearts. I don't know where things are headed with you guys, but I'm proud of you anyway.
Okay I think I've humiliated you enough. (sinister laugh)
-love,
your friend and emotional tormentor, Becca
I made a couple of typos and crap. The post SHOULD have read...
ReplyDeleteI have to side with abomination somewhat. In the first post, he/she said "please don't get offended" or whatnot, so it was a simple question.
However, it was a question that you would have never answered on here. First of all, it was none of her business. Second of all, it would start shit if you did criticize your ex's bedroom skills (not to say there is any reason to do so).
But abomination was on a slippery slope. Your sex with this girl had nothing to do with how your ex performed whatsoever. You didn't choose to sleep with this girl because of anything to do with your ex. You chose to sleep with her because you'd had amazing sex with her in the past and knew that's what would happen again. It's as simple as that.
She could have come along at any point in your life in which you were single and you would have leaped at the chance. Hell, you probably would have been tempted to do so while in a relationship. You definitely will be tempted by her after this incredible night of debauchery so make sure and steer far clear of her when you find your next plan A. :) Just kidding. Like I need to tell you that. You're always faithful. That's something I've always admired. And something I'm grateful for.
Aw, such a nice little Vinnie love in. *puke* :P
ReplyDeleteAnyway, I remember the other week when I went off about over the fact that your ex is dating a racist and how could you actually have anything to do with her and blah blah blah, you actually had calm **me** down and explained to me what the deal was:
You said you hated him because of the way he treated her, more than the fact that he was a racist bastard. You also said that as long as he's truly reformed and treats her the way she deserves to be treated and she's happy, then you're fine **and** you said if anyone could get him to renounce his racist ways, it would be her. At first I thought you were full of shit, but when I looked into your eyes i could tell you meant every word. Unbelievable.
A lotta people would **not** do anything or say anything like that, but you've never been one to follow trends. No wonder i respect the hell outta you.
Okay, now to jump off this hippy bus!
-Jess
So tell us more about this 'aggressive side' of yours
ReplyDelete-JW
(sniff) so much love... I think I've got something in my eye.
ReplyDeleteBecca: I honestly don't know where things are headed with us either. What I do know is that I'm back to "square one" with her as far as trust goes and it'll be a LONG time before she even considers me a friend again, but I expect no less from her. I've presented my case now the rest is up to her.
Libby: Nice comment! I know full well that abomination was trying to bait me into saying something inflammatory about the ex. It's bad enough when someone tries to "manipulate" me, but when they suck at it, it just makes it that more insulting.
I'm afraid my wild nights of debauchery are over with that girl. Last I heard, she's "officially" with that guy she was interested in. As attracted to her as I am, I've resisted her before while I was with someone else. Wasn't easy, but I did it! Yay me!
Jess: Bottom line is: She wasn't happy with me. I had a chance with her and I blew it. It was a LOT more painful trying to hang on to her than it was to accept the situation and let her go. I never want to stand in the way of somebody's happiness (as incredibly corny as that may sound).
Well I guess that's all you can ask for. I Hope everything works out. Good luck!
ReplyDelete-Becca