My decision

I've decided to keep the posts about the ex off of the blog.



Now before any of you start busting my chops, I make NO apologies about writing the posts in the first place and do not feel ashamed for what I did. I exercised my right to express myself and I stand by every word with every fiber in my being.



Some of you may consider it a sign of weakness or an attempt to coddle the ex by removing the entries. Untrue. This is simply a gesture of respect...nothing more, nothing less. The posts served their purpose in helping me get over a bump in my life and move on. There was really no need to keep them posted.



Yeah, I like to rant, rave and bitch like a madman, but I know when it's time to employ rational, objective behavior. By being professional and keeping a cool head, I was able to come to an understanding with the ex. This wouldn't have been possible if I got dragged into a petty name calling contest. That never solves anything and I consider myself a problem solver.



I appreciate all the support some of you have shown me,though some of your comments were a tad tasteless and harsh, I appreciate it all the same. Thank you.



I know if some of you were in my place, you would rather burn your eye lids off rather than take down the posts, but if you allow someone to antagonize you to the point of such irrational behavior, isn't that a sign of weakness?

It's like refusing to wipe your ass because you don't want to give the toilet paper the satisfaction. Me, on the other hand would rather just wipe my ass, flush the toilet paper, wash my hands and go on my merry little way.



Anyway, it isn't open to debate, I got what I wanted, it's over and I intend to keep it that way. As I've said before, it is a final gesture of respect. The decision was MINE to make and I feel stronger for making it.



Now, I'm gonna get some sleep and prepare myself for some serious T-day gorging!!